3 Ways I am Building My Confidence

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This post is sponsored by Kohl’s. I was paid for this post and received the included intimates as compensation.

It is very important to build your confidence.  I used to think this confidence was only related to pride…but we are constantly bombarded with stuff that makes us feel poorly about ourselves.  We have to be able to dig inside, fining practical ways to build our confidence and see the good in ourselves throughout the day.  So…here are 3 simple things you can do today to build up your confidence.

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1.  Make a List.

List-making has been doing wonders for me. Every morning I make a list of what I need to complete for my “work” and “personal” life.  Sometimes, I even add things to the list as I do them.  Here’s the amazing thing….at the end of the day, I see everything accomplished, and I feel a great sense of self-confidence.

My temptation is to feel discouraged, looking at what I’m not doing or what I could be doing better. With list-making, I see first hand all I accomplish and see how valuable I am.

2.  Refresh your undergarments.

Listen…when I get out of the shower and put on some old, worn-out intimate apparel, it affects how I feel about myself.  As a mom, this hasn’t been a high priority for me to spend money.  I have put it at the bottom of my list.  However, when I recently bought this awesome looking apparel from Kohls, I was amazingly put in a different mind space…just from putting on some beautiful matching Kohls

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These are all super comfortable, and make me feel confident in my undergarments too. Since they were super affordable and amazing quality, putting them on truly made me feel more confident and beautiful.

I’ll be honest, it is really hard for me to find beautiful bras that are still comfortable.  I feel like I have to pick one or the other.  I want to feel beautiful and have some great quality bras and underwear. More than anything else, I want to be comfortable.  However, many times comfortable means I look frumpy and not attractive at all.  Being married for 12 years, this is something I definitely want to make a prority.  Kohls is helping me do that. There are so many varieties and colors they offer to meet every possible need you would have for intimates.

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If you are not sure what kind of bra you need, take the bra quiz HERE!! It helped me determine what types and kinds of bras to look to purchase for my body type and needs.

I am always looking for ways to save and Kohls has constant deals.  There’s even a big sale coming up shortly. You can get $10 off $40 Intimates (with promo code INTIMATES10) 3/2 – 3/18, General Semi-Annual Intimates Event 3/2 – 3/26, and $19.99 Bonus Buy Bras 3/2 – 3/11 (These are 12 bras featured as top customer- rated)

I am very happy to tell you the bras I recently bought are the most comfortable ones I’ve owned.  They are extremely comfortable and come in tons of styles.

3.  Pump the positive.

Your internal voice changes when positivity is the constant voice.  Pumping positivity can be listening to an inspirational podcast, reading a book on self-growth or listening to some encouraging music.  These are all things I love to do.  I pump myself up with scripture verses for the day, constantly reading inspirational books, and listening to positive tunes.

These are some practical ways, I am building my self confidence lately. They are making all the difference.  I hope they will encourage you to do the same.

 

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22 Comments:
March 12, 2018

Those are great tips for confidence. I love the under garment, its so pretty.

March 12, 2018

Thanks a bunch!

March 12, 2018

These are great tips! There is a lot of external pressure from a multitude of sources that can be overwhelming. You shared some great thoughts on boosting confidence internally. We can be our own biggest cheerleader!

March 12, 2018

We truly can! Thanks!!!

March 12, 2018

Love all your tips! I haven’t even thought about refreshing my undergarments often ??‍♀️. I should definitely try that. The third one definitely speaks to my heart. I love podcasts and I also started giving myself daily affirmations as well. That helps a lot!

March 12, 2018

Yes podcasts are the best! Thanks!

March 12, 2018

I have apps that from time to time in the day remind me to stop and meditate or read an affirmation. I find that is helpful. But, I love your tip about the undergarments and I love Kohl’s. It is probably time I made a little shopping trip!

March 13, 2018

I love that! So powerful!

March 12, 2018

Thanks for this post! I completely agree that confidence is everything. Lists are a must for me – helps me stay organized and most importantly remember. I find I forget things so easily now with so much going on so writing it down really helps. I like your suggestion about undergarments too! Embarrassingly mine are so neglected – old, pilling everywhere. Yikes.. Time to go shopping! 🙂

March 13, 2018

I am right there with ya! LOL And I love a good list!!

March 12, 2018

These are all great tips!! It is awesome to check things off the list! Now if I could find great nursing bras that are beautiful, supportive, and functional that aren’t so expensive I’ll be set. You are totally right, it does make you feel better when even your underwear is nice! The little things, am I right?!

March 13, 2018

Aww lol! They have tons of those too!

March 13, 2018

So many great tips!! And also, a great reminder that I’m probably overdue for a few new bras!!

March 14, 2018

LOL I totally get it!

March 15, 2018

Ok. I would have never thought about the undergarments but seriously it’s soooo true! I always feel great in new bra sets! And socks. You just can’t beat the new sock feel ?

March 15, 2018

Yes! It makes all the difference!

March 15, 2018

When I buy new panties I feel like I could take over the world lol

March 17, 2018

LOL!! Pretty much!

March 17, 2018

I love you and I love this! Just saying! We all need to hear this!

March 18, 2018

AWW Thanks so much!!!

March 28, 2018

I love when I buy New undies it’s the best! These look amazing!

March 29, 2018

Yes! I totally agree!

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